Call me old-fashioned but, a marriage proposal should be initiated by a man not a woman. I do understand that we are living in a society where things are constantly changing. I do not frown upon women who takes the lead in terms of proposals but, I would not do it.
Though I'm old fashioned and would have a man propose, I'm not totally against a woman doing it for the right reasons. I think many women do it for the wrong reasons, which is why I don't agree with it. The common reason is because they all... say I can't wait for him so I'm goin for mines. The real question she needs to asks is why hasn't he done it? Why is he taking so long? He may not be ready, or has a reason why he DOESN'T want to get married, its the big elephant a lot of women don't want to see. Most of them are too caught up in the idea of marriage, or maybe even wedding to see it. And also I feel there are some things that should be left to a guy. If he loves you enough to propose, its going to be his pleasure to propose to you right. Don't take that joy away from the man.
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