not any more....sometimes people are in a different space than you are.
Age differences are troublesome if so drastic I think. I find older men suspicious--as if they are objectifying the younger woman. I think younger men are way "young" minded mostly because men mature slower. Keep in mind these are SWEEPING generalizations. These are just initial reactions. Pat is 7 years older than me and sometimes, we could tell!
I've always dated older than me. No more than 10 years. It just seemed to happen that way. I guess I thought I related to them better, or maybe it was because they knew what they wanted, and was always upfront and honest. There weren't many games played, but it would never work because I was always the one who wanted to grow and begin a future, and they may have already done that and were too stuck in their ways to change, especially the older they were. I'm now dating in my age bracket, and its so refreshing to be with someone who wants the same things. These are my experienced, there could be older men that are different. Older men tend to have that old gentlemen mentality and tend to know how to treat women like ladies.
Anything older then 10 years age difference in a relationship and the relationship can't be based on love...it's either conveniences like money and security or just plain settling cause you can't find anything else which is sad...that big of an age difference it will be close to impossible to find things in common you can relate to and that puts a major hurting on the communication in the relationship which is the base that keeps it all together....yeah age difference is very key in a successful relationship...unless it's just sex :-)
in 1 now 11 yrs diffrenece
I dont think age matters when it comes to love.
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