No I have not and I could not be. God and family are first. I love my family and am close with them so that would not work. I value their opinions within reason. When I say family I don't mean every single family member but my immediate fam...ily and any other member who I am close with. Family is very important so not only do I want him to get along with mine, but me get along with his, and also him get along with his own family. I generally look for that as well at the beginning of a relationship to see how he treats his family and vice versa (is their respect for one another, do they step all over him or vice versa?). Now there are some exceptions because not everyone has a great relationship with their families but it is important to me if we are to unite and not only bring 2 families together but build one.
It has been about 15 years since I have officially started dating – otherwise known as hanging out or being single and ready to mingle.
Although my girlfriends and I grumble about the pure agony of dating, I must say that we mostly have more laughs than frowns. It is certainly something that I think every young person should get to experience for themselves prior to settling down with that one special person, if for nothing more than for the sheer hilariousness of it all. That’s why I started this blog.
Here I want people to be able to talk about their "single experience"... the good, the bad and the ugly! I know we will share a few gasps, some chuckles, some boos and cheers but most of all I hope we can uplift each other through this process and just have some plain old fun with it. Anyone can share their two cents, if you're single, married 30 years or are a newlywed.
If you are interested in being a regular contributor on the blog, contact me at singlejustlikethat@gmail.com and I will be glad to add you. Keep in mind, that this isn’t used to insult or hurt anyone, so please by all means use alternate names to protect the innocent! HA
Check out the First Post, "Just Like That...." to understand how I came up with this name!
Happy Posting!
Janelle
Tuesday, May 10, 2011
Kitchen Table Topic ~ 05/09/2011 ~ Have you ever been in a serious relationship with someone your family couldn't stand and/or he/she also did not like your family? How did you handle this? If not, could you be in a relationship with this situation?
No I have not and I could not be. God and family are first. I love my family and am close with them so that would not work. I value their opinions within reason. When I say family I don't mean every single family member but my immediate fam...ily and any other member who I am close with. Family is very important so not only do I want him to get along with mine, but me get along with his, and also him get along with his own family. I generally look for that as well at the beginning of a relationship to see how he treats his family and vice versa (is their respect for one another, do they step all over him or vice versa?). Now there are some exceptions because not everyone has a great relationship with their families but it is important to me if we are to unite and not only bring 2 families together but build one.
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