It has been about 15 years since I have officially started dating – otherwise known as hanging out or being single and ready to mingle.

Although my girlfriends and I grumble about the pure agony of dating, I must say that we mostly have more laughs than frowns. It is certainly something that I think every young person should get to experience for themselves prior to settling down with that one special person, if for nothing more than for the sheer hilariousness of it all. That’s why I started this blog.

Here I want people to be able to talk about their "single experience"... the good, the bad and the ugly! I know we will share a few gasps, some chuckles, some boos and cheers but most of all I hope we can uplift each other through this process and just have some plain old fun with it. Anyone can share their two cents, if you're single, married 30 years or are a newlywed.

If you are interested in being a regular contributor on the blog, contact me at singlejustlikethat@gmail.com and I will be glad to add you. Keep in mind, that this isn’t used to insult or hurt anyone, so please by all means use alternate names to protect the innocent! HA

Check out the First Post, "Just Like That...." to understand how I came up with this name!

Happy Posting!

Janelle

Wednesday, May 18, 2011

Kitchen Table Topic ~ 5/17/11~What do you think makes a man commit to one woman over another?

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Here are some of the responses from yesterdays post on Facebook!
That one has me baffled. If I knee I wouldn't be single now. If anyone knows, please post, got the pen and paper ready to take notes. LMAO!  Since I have no idea, I can only be true to myself, and pray for the best.

Timing.

I agree...timing is very important. I also think of has to do with long term projection, like a project almost.

Several things, Could be her personality, her charm, her swag and possibly even her status.

The first thing that comes to mind is age...but it also can be that the women he chooses makes him a better man and makes him work for love and not just give it to him cause we so desperate

 Definitely timing...also could be he views one as a seasonal friend, the other as a lifetime partner.

A woman's game! It's not only the men out here that got game, women are into bafoonery, tricks, etc. They lie and coerce a man into believing they are someone they are not. Once they marry and have a couple of children BAM their TRUTH comes to light. Its a... sad day because there are so many unhappy people, folks are just not enjoying life the way they used to and others are enjoying it at the expense of the next man. The good are getting hurt a lot more often!

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